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Monday, February 19, 2007
Intricacies
There are so many intricate things that a baby does, many things his parents may not even register until they actually sit and think about it. Moms do this even less because usually they're exhausted out of their mind.
Nonetheless, I made an interesting observation about Jack today. When he's had a night feed and I leave, he still mouths for a nipple and failing which, he'll wail, "ay..." The funny thing is, I say "ay" (not to him) when denied something. Has he learnt it via observation or is it inate?
Delightedly we woke up 2 hours early to dress up for Jack's first CNY. He looked so smart and handsome in his blue shirt and brown cords. Later I was to find out that the early wake-up really messed up his day for him.
He was uncharacteristically shy the first hour at my Mom's, although unshy about taking red packets from his family. After the first hour he warmed up to the cooing grandaunts and granduncles and began his journey around the house.
Following a short nap, we headed to Uncle Gene's where the house was filled to a brim. Gleeful adults pushed us to the room where a 13 month old boy dressed in a red onesie was happily toddling around.
"Look at the baby," they hollered. So both Moms carried their offspring to meet. Unfortunately the older one decided to greet Jack by poking him in the eye. I quickly checked for damage (he was okay) but he burst out crying from the shock of it.
Swiftly I forced a smile and exited the room. He calmed down not long after and amused himself with a plastic cup. I had some lunch and we left not long after. My Mom commented that it was normal for babies to poke each other in the eye. I begged to differ. My girlfriend Karen's son who was 1 year old when Jack met him did no such thing.
Tea at my godma's and after that a short visit to my goddaughter's. Jack fell asleep in my arms for an hour from 5.50-6.50pm and we went to dinner with the whole family again. At 8.30pm, Jack dozed off again till 9.10pm and I suddenly realised that it was the earlier wake-up time that screwed up his schedule.
My poor son was grouchy all day because his nap times were all jumbled up and he obviously didn't sleep enough last night. So no more funny too-enthusiastic early wake-ups for Jack. We'll be sleeping in tomorrow. Meanwhile, I'm going to investigate this eye-poking phenomenon my Mom claims is normal.
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For the past 2 months (or maybe one month), Jack has been waking up in the middle of the night and in the mornings - not all the time but most of the time - somehow standing on his hands and feet, eyes closed and crying. I quickly carry him and turn him to lying down again, nurse him, and he's out like a light again.
This evening, it happened again about 3-4 times. 2 times he didn't even seem to be awake. I turned him back and patted his back and he was asleep again. The last time I nursed him a bit and he fell asleep again.
I'm searching online to see what it could be. But so far the one post I found was of another mother whose baby is doing the same and she is as perplexed as me. Hmm...
It's the eve of CNY today and we spent the day lazing around and playing with Jack who seems to have a 9 month developmental thingy where he suddenly cries and seems inconsolable. He does get bored real fast however, and now can dart into another room by himself on his very own adventures. He loves grabbing onto furniture and pulling himself up.
We went for lunch at KFC and then visited Tom & Stephanie to see if they stocked the rubber mats to line our floor for Jack's safety. Aside from being nice and spongy to walk on, they also protect Jack if he falls. Despite him being steady on his feet 95%, 5% he gets excited and reaches for something that causes him to lose his balance.
He'll be walking very soon, my Mom estimates perhaps at 11 months, it's high time to childproof our home even more. He'll be running faster than any of us can catch him and at least the floor is safe if he falls. Worth the investment of $16.90 per 4x 1m square mat. Green too.
We let the cats out to hang with us. We've missed them so much and I think the enzyme cleaner should have killed all the old scents by now. Jack is rather entralled by them and now Buffy is shyly approaching Jack as their Dad pets her lovingly. We hope that by example, he'll learn to love them very much too. More supervised playtimes ahead. :)
Every bit of literature I've read, scientific and otherwise, advises that children under the age of 2 should not be watching TV. I happen to agree.
Of course, implementation can be tough, especially with TVs just about everywhere - at home, at Grandma's house, at other family members' homes. Plus, it is tempting. Dump child in front of TV, yay free time. Dump child in front of TV, yay no fussing about eating.
So what we've implemented in our household is that no one watches TV. In fact, in my final month of pregnancy, I passed my cable box to my brother and asked him to return it. We'll only watch DVDs or movies in the cinema, if ever.
The strange thing is I don't miss TV. Not all that much. Aside from a couple of films - Xmen III and Superman Returns - I really wanted to watch, I haven't caught anything else scheduled. Sure, there is the occasional viewing of some random news or movie on my brother's TV but that's about it.
Plus neither of us is tempted (him by the remote) to spend endless hours on the TV. Instead, he plays and I read a book or magazine, we play or read a book together, or we go out to the park or for a swim or to meet some friends to catch up.
Maybe some day in the future when he is back to school, I'll catch the 2nd and 3rd seasons of Prison Break but for now, I'm quite happy to relish my bittersweet memories of Buffy and Angel, and enjoy watching Jack, my real-life TV star in my very own extended version trilogy.
Every parent to a teen and every child to an aging parent must have experienced this fear: will he or she get home safely? Jack is not a teen yet (and I am sort of dreading those years) but I do worry about my Mom and Dad driving around at their age. Sure, they're safe drivers and very experienced, but bad things can happen on the road.
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Jack turned 9 months yesterday and he's been making leaps in bounds in his development. Plus he enjoys sitting in his rear-facing car seat now so that's a huge bonus!
He claps with sound now and looks most gleeful when doing so. :) I encourage him by clapping along. When he achieves something, it is always greeted with delight from everyone and claps too. In the past 2 weeks he's mastered climbing the stairs all by himself (with close supervision of a Mom-shadow just behind him). He also stands very firmly now and loves letting go of the furniture with one hand and then grinning at me arms splayed as if to say, look Ma, no hands.
I noticed he's been making different sounds in response to different things. When greeting his old and familiar dolls Humpty and Tigger, he coos and pats them gently smiling widely. He's also reserved a special coo sound for his Grandma and me, and a unique shriek when he sees his Grandpop and Dad.
He's been having supervised playtime with Boy as well. Boy likes to wander the house sometimes just to get away from the kids so I let him in to interact with Jack. He likes sitting and watching us play, and Jack's more and more keen to stroke his feline brother. I have to remind him to be gentle when he gets excited but more interactions have been happy and fulfilling.
More fun this long CNY weekend! :D I must remember to take more photos.
This got me totally hooked on the spot... There's nothing like playing dress-up with a zillion (okay, not literally but pretty darned close) dolls, faces, hair, make-up, clothes, accessories. It is like Barbie but better. Here's mine below looking as close to what I do on a good day except I am a bit less heavy on the make-up IRL. :)
You can use these amazing dolls as avatars for forums, blogs, chats, or even competitions. For someone who spends half a day customising my character before I play any RPG - yes it must represent me - this is sheer heaven.
And it's really easy to play. Go to Dress Up Games and simply follow the instructions. After you've customised your doll, this is the part that gets interesting.
For starters, you can send it to yourself in an email or extract the HTML code they offer (as I have) to paste in your blog, forum profile, etc. The Doll Palace also offers you the option to turn your doll into an animated icon, include it in a card, enter it into a competition which they run, use it in a fashion show, and even create a story with it.
Here are a few more samples of the dolls you can create:
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